Yesterday was our 10 year wedding anniversary.  Amy and I met at Camp Joy when we were 14 years old. I think I had a crush on her from the start.  It took her 2 years before she returned my affection.  We started dating when we were 16.  After 6 months, Amy broke up with me–at a winter retreat at Camp Joy. 

Five years later, we exchanged vows…at Camp Joy.

Yesterday, Amy took the greyhound to be with me on our anniversary.  We spent it at Camp Joy, where I served as the speaker of the week for the 14-17 year olds.  It was a great day.  I had a blast speaking at this place which holds so many memories.  Amy’s parents came out to camp, along with an anniversary cake and our new wedding album. 

I love Amy.  I’ve loved her since we were kids.  And I’ll love her when we’re old and wrinkly. Sometimes I shock myself when I realize that I married Amy Elliott.  I married this cute little smart girl that I’ve had a crush on for more than half of my life.  The same Amy Elliott that intimidated a shy, awkward, chubby 14 year old camper who was new to faith, and had only one friend in his universe. 

I always thought Amy was too good for me.  She had so many friends, had great parents, played piano, was valedictorian, and was in all of the smart-people clubs in school (yet still was pretty popular).  I was right.  She is too good for me.  But she’s never thought so.  She loves me. And I love her.  And I couldn’t be happier with anyone else.

About Mark Van Steenwyk

Mark Van Steenwyk is a member of Missio Dei. He is a speaker, writer, educator, and grassroots organizer. With the support of the Central Plains Mennonite Conference, he travels to radical and intentional communities around the country to help network and offer support.